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For the past few days even until today, i didnt talked to my parents at home. The reason was that i asked my dad this question through sms, " Pa, if i have boyfriend, can i introduce him to you? ". His reply was " Julia, we talk about at home. ". That night, when i reached home, bathed, my dad suddenly called out my name asking me to come out of my room and talk about it. My dad asked me how old was my boyfriend, i replied him 31. He was shocked to hear that my boyfriend was so much older than me. I was wondering, does everyone in this cannot have boyfriend or girlfriend older than them? The answer is NO. My dad began to think that im talking about marriage, when is like going into relationships needs time to understand each other before committing more into it. He just totally jump into the conclusion.

One thing that makes me remember vividly. My dad previously said that when i finish my studies after 3 years, who i want to get married with, he wont stop me, he will give me his blessing. BUT on the second day of the conversation asking me if i have talked to Victor, i said yes, telling him what Victor told me. Victor said that, " I understand the whole thing, i will look out for other girls and Juliana will look out for other guys also. But after Juliana's studies, im still single and available and Juliana also, we may consider about marriage. ". My dad says that i simply cant get Victor out of my mind cos he asked me to open my mind for other guys out in this world and not only him. I cant imagine, my dad wants me to go into relationship with those guys whom i find them nice right? It is so so lame. I dont know if he understands what is into relationship means.

My dad then say he washed his hands of me, whatever i want to do just do. He says that im just wasting his breathe talking to him, i rebel back telling him that he just waste my time talking to him and i regretted telling him this. My dad totally flare up, he stood in front of me putting his face near me with a fierce look. He said to me, " Dont let me slap you! Because of this stupid guy, you go against your parents! ". My dad scold Victor stupid! I scold back my dad saying that one moment u say that he was not a bad guy, NOW u say that he is stupid! When i told my dad that he say Victor is a stupid guy, he kept denying that he didnt say that. What a man of a word he is. Somehow i despise my dad. He also said that, why cant Victor go to the Matchmaking Center to look for a wife cos at this age he would want to start his own family already. I immediately talked back saying that Victor's mum never rush him to get married, what rights do u have to rush him to get married? Freaking Idiot people, have the mindset of controlling people's mind. They just sucks!

My dad said that my mum was unhappy about Victor. She told my dad that, she always saw me alone in his car. I was thinking, dont tell me every guy who sends me home with me alone in his car, i am having an affair with that guy is it? It is so ridiculous, cant Victor send my colleague and i home? Both of them didnt use their brain to think before saying me. They just kept on jumping into the conclusion. What i can say is that, parent's word cannot be trusted. Now, my dad kept on calling me on my mobile, asking me if i have eaten my lunch? , am i going back to have dinner? or what time am i coming back home?. He is obviously trying to check on me.

I cant believe there r such parents in this world. I thought that my dad was quite open-minded, thinking that that guy can look after my daughter well, he is contented already. But the fact is not what im thinking!

I dont care cos this is my own life! I choose who i want to get married with, not my dad! Even if in the end, my dad still dont allow, i will still have it my own way. No one can stop and seperate us! I will prove to my dad that, even if i dont heed my dad's advice. I will prove to him that i will lead a VERY HAPPY AND CONTENTED life with Victor. No one can stop or seperate us!